With the three requested procedures: acceptance of what it is difficult, to love the solitude and following the ways of silence, Rilke shows the Kappus that the moment of pain is of the growth. Then it asks for that to its ' ' aluno' ' he is calm, because it would be felt guided, exactly in way to a serious storm, exactly in the center it chaos or the eye of an emotional hurricane. Rilke explains: ' ' But everything this does not have to desorientar it. What one becomes necessary, it is however, this: solitude, a great interior solitude. To enter exactly in itself, not to find nobody during hours? here it is what if it must know alcanar' ' (p.48-49, paragraph 01). The author justifies in the next segment the pparently steep way to the solitude, to comfort the being, enternece the abandonment of the sounds and asks for to patience the Franz. He rewards it for Kappus, to if collecting to this solitude, would be of harmonic restoration e, moreover, to conceive of itself for itself the privilege of being set free of the fear of such nip: Therefore it is so important to be alone and intent when it is sad. The andino and pparently immovable moment where our future enters in us, is much more next to the life of what that one other, sonorous and accidental, where it supervenes in them as if he arrived of it are. The more we will be quiet, patient and you deliver our hurt, in such a way deeper and imperturbvel the newness enters in us, as much conquers better it, in such a way plus it our destination will become, and when in one day later to come that is, when to leave us to arrive at others we sentizemos it familiar and prxima’ ‘ (P.